How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 08:11
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is the rudest/meanest thing a family member has said to you?
Ask yourself:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Which city should one visit between Nice and Cannes? Why?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?
Procrastinates a lot.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Have you ever accidentally seen your mother-in-law doing something that was private to her?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Does not procrastinate.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):